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Jonathan Ettinger's avatar

You found two of my biggest pet peeves in one person: 1. Claiming to be an expert when you're clearly not. 2. Claiming to be "ex-Mormon" when you're DEFINITELY not. They're two variants of the same problem, really; lies to present a false sense of trust and reliability.

The only thing missing (and maybe he said this, too, but you didn't write about it), is to say that "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints" is our recent rebranding to seem more Christian. Nevermind that it's been THE name for nearly 200 years.

It's as though the guy has a speech full of confirmation bias offered to those who already agree with him. For as much as it bothers me that his seemingly only familiarity with the "oni" combination in written form is via "macaroni", lying about past membership is worse. I see it too often. Some people genuinely left the church and are all about new beliefs now. Others just make blanket claims about past membership that we're supposed to accept on face value but as soon as you scratch beyond the surface it's apparent that it's just a role they're playing. If you need to lie about who you are in order to feign credibility, you're just admitting we shouldn't listen to you. It's why I'd MUCH rather than people spend time on "Here's what I believe and why. Let's discuss." instead of "Here's why you're wrong and going to Hell and stuff, but I say it out of love".

I'm reminded of a video I saw not long ago. Rather, it was a video wherein these guys critiqued someone else's video and that someone else was VERY guilty of saying "muh-ROW-nee" whilst claiming past church affiliation (or at least proximity). It may well be the same guy you wrote about.

https://youtu.be/CpkOdydqDV4

Note: growing up, PLENTY of people misread MANY words in both the Bible and the Book of Mormon. I can't tell you how many times I've heard Nephi as "Neffy". So they didn't reference the pronunciation guide, maybe never read it aloud before, I don't know. But those people don't prop themselves up as experts. Meanwhile, the names and words in the Bible I can't pronounce correctly would fill their own book. Doesn't mean I never read it. Just means I'm guilty of not learning good pronunciation.

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Rainbow Roxy's avatar

Didn't expect this take. You totally nailed that 'fellow Mormans' observasion. So good!

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